Have we over-extended the meaning of some terms: , abuse, harment, etc?

It seems like we spend more time at work, in government, and life in general sorting out all this crap than we do actually doing anything of any value. Mandatory ual harment awareness meetings that basically define ual harment as "anything." Not a good use of time. Drunk people having is now? I thought it was called being 21. To me, if it really is or abuse it isn't that hard to figure out, and doesn't need a law book to define it. The world has lost its damn mind.